You may wish for an apology from the church body in which you were harmed and abused. This should not happen without your express wishes and views being sought including who should make the apology, how it is communicated with you and the issues it should address.
All efforts should be made by the church body to comply with your wishes.
If you would like an apology, you can contact the Diocesan Safeguarding Officer
Diocesan Safeguarding Officer Beth Miller
Address: Cuthbert House, Stonebridge, Durham DH1 3RY
Email: beth@bethmillerisw.co.uk | beth.miller@durham.anglican.org
Mobile: 07968034075.
Alternatively, you could use one of the survivor advocacy services listed in I do not want to make contact with the Diocese of Durham and the survivor advocacy service could make the request on your behalf.