By Elizabeth Iyogun, Parish Giving Advisor
As Christmas approaches, I find myself reflecting on what generosity truly means from my childhood in Nigeria to my life here in England. I am reminded that generosity is more than gifts under a Christmas tree; it is opening our hearts, our homes, and our hands to feed, support and love others.
Growing up in a Yoruba (African) family, Christmas was full of colours, laughter and the smell of delicious food. It was a time when everyone opened their hearts and their homes. My mother would make a big pot of jollof rice and stew with chicken and our favourite, goat meat, not just for our family, but for neighbours, friends and even those we barely know.
My sibling and I would deliver free plates of food to neighbours and the homeless on the street. When we deliver to neighbours, we would receive small treats in return and we would even compete to be chosen. Looking back now, I realise those moments taught us something important, the joy of giving and receiving. Generosity nourishes both the body and soul.
My parents also quietly provided financial support to families who struggled to provide for their loved ones during the Christmas season. Their actions remind me of what Christ has called us to do: to share what we have, feed the hungry and love our neighbours as we love ourselves. I have come to embrace this culture of generosity and I hope my children will continue this tradition as well.
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only son” (John 3:16). Our acts of generosity reflect Jesus’s love. That same love still calls us to give joyfully, freely and with open hearts.
Now living in England, I see that same generous spirit expressed in such beautiful ways, through people who give faithfully to support their churches, volunteer, support foodbanks, offer their time, and show kindness. While I have not been able to replicate the full community dinners from Nigeria, I have brought the spirit of generosity with me to England. I have been deeply moved by the kindness and generosity I have witnessed here. Whether through the community efforts, church initiatives or kindness from strangers. The warmth of giving here has been just as powerful as the generosity I grew up with in Nigeria
No matter where you are, the accents and weather conditions may be different, the warmth of love and giving is the same.
As we approach Christmas this year, I encourage you to reflect. How can you share the love that has been shown to you? Whether it is feeding those in need, offering your time, prayer, or generous support to our churches. Think about how you can make someone’s day a little brighter.
E ku odun,e ku iyedun(happy festive season and celebration). May your Christmas be filled with peace, love and the joy of giving.